don't struggle against the will of God. He has good plans for you, better plans than you will ever have for yourselves, and those plans are the best you can ever have since they were given to you by the one who created you and is perfectly good and thus is the author of what's best.

thus sometimes, you have to move many steps back, to move one step forward. for one has reached the dead end - and simply going forward will lead to a cliff, and the inevitable drop into nothingness.

so turn back! move back! you have to go back to move forward.

you better do it soon.